Important Lesson

[kellinator]

Don't do stuff for people in an effort to make them like you.

It never works, and you end up tired.

Comments

[fourtines.livejournal.com]

Hmmm. It depends on what you're doing to make someone like you. If you are changing the person that you really are and are hurting yourself in any way to impress them, then yeah, that's wrong.

But I don't know that it's a waste of time to invest energy into a worthwhile person. For any relationship to work, it does take some effort on the parts of both people.