Oh, do I understand! But your friends are right: you get through it by focusing on the moment and on the next step.
Also: imposed change can really improve the situation for those of us who won't budge without a crowbar or explosives. I am petrified/terrified by change, too, but I can honestly say that in retrospect, I am far better off because of each of the changes. Whatever is happening, you will be better off eventually - and, clearly, you will have friends and support through it all! ::hug and virtual cup of tea:: EGBAR (evrathin' gon' be aw-right)!
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Date: 2004-06-02 11:11 am (UTC)Also: imposed change can really improve the situation for those of us who won't budge without a crowbar or explosives. I am petrified/terrified by change, too, but I can honestly say that in retrospect, I am far better off because of each of the changes. Whatever is happening, you will be better off eventually - and, clearly, you will have friends and support through it all! ::hug and virtual cup of tea:: EGBAR (evrathin' gon' be aw-right)!