the parts of us... that are us.. are the ones that get us the payoff we want to have. Sometimes we are not as positive as we wish to be.
What does being nice do for you? What does it get you? I like nice people. It doesn't mean there is no snark, etc... it just means that generally they are pleasant, helpful and fun to be around. Is there anything wrong with people like that? Not that I can tell...
And I don't think it is insecure to question yourself and your values.. if you didn't... I would worry then.
Hang in, Kel.... I think no one knows the real "them" until they get a few years on them... I didn't learn much about me until after I was 30...
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Date: 2004-02-02 10:30 am (UTC)What does being nice do for you? What does it get you? I like nice people. It doesn't mean there is no snark, etc... it just means that generally they are pleasant, helpful and fun to be around. Is there anything wrong with people like that? Not that I can tell...
And I don't think it is insecure to question yourself and your values.. if you didn't... I would worry then.
Hang in, Kel.... I think no one knows the real "them" until they get a few years on them... I didn't learn much about me until after I was 30...