When a friend needs to hear they are being a moron, I tend to have that moment off-lj. My perspective may be odd because many of the people on my flist are in situations where I know a lot of the story, so I know whether they need a kick in the pants, or if they truly need a hug. The people I don't know very well don't get *hugs* or a kick in the pants, simply because I don't know what's going on.
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Date: 2005-01-26 04:16 pm (UTC)