kellinator: (Daria)
kellinator ([personal profile] kellinator) wrote2003-11-12 10:22 am

Grrr. Arrgh.

I just really need to get myself to the point where I really don't give a fuck what anyone thinks of me.

[identity profile] rance.livejournal.com 2003-11-12 07:38 am (UTC)(link)
I agree.

And so do I.

[identity profile] fanagle.livejournal.com 2003-11-12 07:41 am (UTC)(link)
That point exists?

[identity profile] streamweaver.livejournal.com 2003-11-12 08:22 am (UTC)(link)
Well until you reach that point. For what it's worth, I like you.

[identity profile] kellinator.livejournal.com 2003-11-12 08:30 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, thanks. I like you too. And the game has quickly become one of the highlights of my week.

I know it's spur of the moment, but wanna get lunch?

[identity profile] streamweaver.livejournal.com 2003-11-12 10:48 am (UTC)(link)
I read this just after I got back from a lunch meeting. lol. Later in the week or next week is fine though. lol

[identity profile] kellinator.livejournal.com 2003-11-12 02:43 pm (UTC)(link)
btw, did I leave my dice over at y'all's place?

[identity profile] zanzara.livejournal.com 2003-11-12 08:39 am (UTC)(link)
It is a great feeling. I didn't get there until I turned 40 though. Many good things come with age besides death.

[identity profile] canciona.livejournal.com 2003-11-12 10:32 am (UTC)(link)
Good luck!

I'm really only ever there on particularly good days...or when I'm incredibly pissed off. ;) The rest of the time I just try to keep me in the top ten of "people whose opinions matter". :)

But it's an admirable goal. Go for it!

[identity profile] vanguardian.livejournal.com 2003-11-12 11:21 am (UTC)(link)
When you get there, be sure to send directions to the rest of us!

[identity profile] rocketmelee.livejournal.com 2003-11-12 03:56 pm (UTC)(link)
One exercise that helps:
You find that you're giving a fuck about what someone thinks about. You stop and pause. You mentally catalogue the reasons why what they think about you fails to matter, and furthermore, you evaluate what you think about *them*. Imagining obscene hand gestures or rude little dances while doing this is both permissable and encouraged.

[identity profile] kellinator.livejournal.com 2003-11-13 03:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm all about the rude little dances!